STEP 34: DON’T BE THE MISTER FIX-IT

02/12/2011

Friends have problems with friends, or family got problems with your friends? Problems at school or at work? Ok separate the people from the problem and don’t be the Mr Fix it for every problem comes up in others’ lives.

You a WE person? That’s nice, but don’t you think you don’t have to ‘fix’ everyone’s problems? Everyone is asking for your advice but don’t go too deep with it. Just give them your opinion and ‘leave’. Try and tell people that you really don’t know how to fix their problems because in the end you might end up being the problem for them.

If you’re a man, don’t give advice to women. You don’t know women. Women’s inside is as different as their outside in comparing to a man. So get clear with that, and if you find something weird about that, say it before you two get any more compromizing. The only advice you allowed to give is try and convince them that “There is a light at the other side of the tunnel” and that’s it. The more you get included in the others’ problem the more problems you adopt.

You don’t have to search for everyone’s bright side. Everyone has a ‘dark ‘side and that’s not always bad. People can find solutions to their problems in places in their mind they didn’t even know their existence. Tell them that it’s not always about them, and get a second thinking to the other person’s thoughts.

So find the main thing in that relationship and work it so you can apply it to make your life simpler. All you need is a little more courage and daring.

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